It’s decision season. You open your email or log into a college portal to check your admissions status. And the message begins with “We regret to inform you…” If that school was at the top of your list, this is a difficult moment. There is no way to sugarcoat it, and you do not need anyone to try. A denial from a school you cared about is a real disappointment, and it is okay to feel that. But before you let that feeling define what comes next, let’s put this in perspective.

Most students add a few likely colleges to their list almost as an afterthought. They focus their energy on Reach and Possible schools and assume the likelies will simply be there if needed. But that mindset misses the point. A well-chosen likely school should never feel like a backup plan. It should feel like a place you would be genuinely excited to attend. Start by identifying the characteristics you are seeking in your college experience. Are you looking for strong academ

Deciding which college to attend can be one of the toughest decisions for high school seniors. With so many options, it's easy to feel...